Gone Fishin’

October 2013

Last weekend we went to the country!  We were so excited to take a weekend to relax and spend time with family.  I think Hayden needed it most of all…but Haley had the most fun.  Hayden got a new air gun and was dying to try it out.  No better place than the country to shoot guns, fish, and hunt turkey!

We prayed the whole way there for safe travel because it was raining so hard!  Thankfully we made it safely and the rain kept any chance of turkey hunting obsolete so we got to relax most of the day.

Later in the afternoon, once naps were over and the weather had cleared, we went outside to fish while the boys went hunting.  Hayden’s Mom is a master fisher-woman.  She isn’t scared to bait a hook with a live cricket or take a fish off a line.  The pond on their land is stock full of Bream and the kids were catching fish throw after throw and LOVING it!

That night Haley prayed that they’d get to fish more tomorrow and that the fish would be biting.  Her prayer was answered.  Saturday was so much fun.  EARLY in the morning I went hunting with Hayden and his Dad- insight on that experience at LouderGod.com.  I told Hayden if we are planning to wake up before 5am, to leave me in bed!  So, at 4:30am we all got up, got the camo gear on, made coffee, and headed to Kosciusko.  On my blog post I wrote about how much I love hunting with Hayden…but didn’t mention my other hunting buddy.  Hayden’s Dad is awesome to go with.  His excitement is contaigious and he is so generous.  He tries to put us in the best place to see what we are hunting, he always makes sure I am comfortable (gave me his stool to sit on this trip), and is so encouraging about my shooting abilities…which is pretty good, if I do say so myself!  I love having that time with him, listening to his hunting stories on our way and hearing about how he lives out his Christian walk.  He never brags about all the ways he helps people, but as we drive along, he’ll point out places where he helped someone.  The difference in hearing a guy tell about helping someone and hearing his stories are that he is always more effected than them.  You can tell that it’s his life that is changed when the Holy Spirit uses him…which is often.  The main lesson here- when you are open and willing The Lord will provide all possible resources needed.  Hayden frequently says if he grows up to be half the man his Dad is, he will count himself successful.  I agree.  The best news is that as parents, we do all we can to teach, inspire, and pray our children into being better people than us.  Gary is no exception and I see evidence that Hayden is on that path.  Life experience teaches us a lot about loving others, being patient with differences, and the importance of helping others to be their best. We still have a lot to learn, but I hope we pass these lessons on to our children- in word and deed- as we learn them and see them modeled in our parents.  Makes me SO thankful for the passion and drive both sets of Grandparents have in serving others in the name of The Lord…what a legacy!

Even though we were tired, we focused the rest of the day on spending quality family time outside in the sunshine.  Haley was “hooked” on fishing so we hung out at the pond.  She was on cloud nine and Trey was in and out of interest.  Even though fishing wasn’t his favorite activity, there were plenty of other things to keep his attention- sticks, rocks, dirt, ant hills.  I sat on the dock watching the kids run along the edge of the pond and thought to myself, “CLICK!”  I wanted to keep that picture in my mind.  Getting all nostalgic about the simplicity of being out there prompted some conversation between me and Hayden about how we can put more of “that” in our life at home.  We committed to more outside play time, more fishing, more concentrated family time, and trying to keep it simple.  Week one of this has gone well!  We’ve done some crafts, played games, rode bikes, worked in the garden and kept the TV off!  It’s been awesome and I’m grateful for the perspective.

Haley made badges for everyone so we could show our “best fisherman” pride!  She was busy coloring and working on her badges for us for a good part of the weekend.  So sweet.